Encouragement and Support with the General Public
In our relationships with others, especially in our daily interactions and business dealings, the Bible instructs us to approach each situation with love, encouragement, and a spirit of support. Ephesians 4:26-32 (KJV) teaches us that while it is natural to feel anger, we should not let it lead us into sin or give the devil a foothold in our lives. We are reminded to put away all bitterness, wrath, anger, and malice, and instead be kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving, just as God has forgiven us through Christ. Iit is our duty to work toward getting along with everyone, making it a priority to foster peace and understanding. A “soft answer” can often turn away anger and help to maintain harmony.
The Bible also calls us to encourage and support one another, building each other up in our communities. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NIV) reminds us to "encourage one another and build each other up," while Hebrews 10:24-25 (NIV) urges us to "spur one another on toward love and good
deeds" and to not give up meeting together. It is important to make every effort to create an environment where we uplift and care for each other.
Kindness and compassion should be our guiding principles. Ephesians 4:32 (NIV) instructs us to "be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Similarly, Galatians 6:10 (NIV) advises us to "do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers." These verses remind us to be quick to forgive and eager to help others, showing the love of Christ in all our interactions.
Justice and integrity are also crucial in our dealings with others. Micah 6:8 (NIV) asks us, "What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God." Proverbs 3:27 (NIV) adds, "Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to act." These scriptures emphasize the importance of fairness and integrity in our relationships, encouraging us to treat others with the justice and mercy that God desires.
Peace and harmony are essential goals in all our relationships. Romans 12:18 (NIV) advises, "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." Matthew 5:9 (NIV) echoes this by saying, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God." We are called to be agents of reconciliation, striving to maintain peace and unity wherever possible. This brings peace and allows the love of Jesus to shine through us.
However, the Bible also provides guidance on how to respond to those who act out of jealousy, malice, or anger. Matthew 5:44 (NIV) instructs us to "love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you," emphasizing that our response should be rooted in love, not retaliation. Romans 12:20-21 (NIV) echoes this, urging us to overcome evil with good by showing kindness even to those who wish to harm us. This approach not only reflects Christ’s love but can also soften the hearts of those acting out of malice.
Instead of seeking revenge, we are encouraged to trust in God's justice. Romans 12:19 (NIV) advises, "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath," reminding us that God will bring justice in His perfect timing. Psalm 37:1-2 (NIV) reassures us not to be anxious about those who do wrong, as their plans will ultimately fail under God’s control.
We are also called to seek peace and avoid quarreling. Proverbs 15:1 (NIV) teaches that "a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." By responding calmly and gently, we can often defuse tense situations rather than escalate conflict. Romans 12:18 (NIV) emphasizes that as far as it depends on us, we should strive to live at peace with everyone. However, there are times when individuals may be out to harm us, and in such cases, it may be necessary to forgive and walk away to avoid further conflict if possible.
Lastly, we are called to remain patient and endure. 1 Peter 3:9 (NIV) instructs us not to repay evil with evil, but instead to repay evil with blessing, demonstrating a Christlike character. James 1:19-20 (NIV) further emphasizes the importance of being "quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry," as human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.
When faced with hostility or malice, the Bible teaches us to respond with love, trust in God’s justice, seek peace, and exercise patience. By doing so, we reflect the character of Christ and allow God’s love and righteousness to guide our actions, even in challenging situations.